
Why aren't people signing up for your email list? Why aren't they buying what you're selling? The answer is a lot simpler than you may realize...
Building a solid email list of people who want to hear from you regularly is the single most important thing you can do as a small business owner. A targeted, responsive email list makes everything else so much easier. Wouldn’t you agree? Yet many of us struggle with how to get this done, so I want to give you a specific example from my own business.
What People Want to Hear vs What They Need to Hear
As a sales trainer, I’ve always had to tell people what they NEED to hear. If I spent all my time with clients telling them what they WANT to hear, we’d never make any progress. When it comes to getting results you simply have to do what it takes. Short cuts don’t work. We all know this, right?
I’ve spent the last few months sharing on this blog what I’ve learned about how to produce results for real. I know how to sell…been doing it online and offline for over 10 years. But importantly, the fact that I know this topic isn’t what causes people to sign up for my list. They only sign up when I tell them what they WANT to hear first. That’s how we get started. I can only tell people what they need to hear after I first tell them what they want to hear.
Here’s an interesting tidbit…I changed my opt-in forms a while back and promised a quick, simple solution to starting a profitable business blog (the most common request from my paying consulting clients so far)…my opt in rates immediately rose between 200%-1000%. Overall, an average 400% increase across the site. Consider the impact of this. I changed NOTHING about the blog or myself. I’m selling the exact same stuff I was before. All I changed was the packaging! Here are some questions to consider:
- Can you see the value in this?
- Would you be willing to repackage yourself as well?
- Do you feel this would somehow diminish the value you offer people?
- Do you believe telling people what they want to hear is dishonest?
Current Perception (NOT actual value) = Value
Would you like to see a 400% increase in your results as well? Then carefully criticize your marketing message, your headlines, your tweets, etc. Are you simply “giving valuable information”? Or are you “telling people what they want to hear”? Go back and look at what you’ve done so far, and you might be surprised at how often you’re failing to CONNECT with your audience. It’s an honest mistake. We all do it.
See…information is only valuable if it’s acted upon. And no one acts on information just because YOU know it to be effective. This is really important: they have to PERCEIVE it to be effective. Put another way…you can’t sell what’s actually going to be helpful to people. It’s silly, but it’s true. People only buy what they PERCEIVE to be valuable. See the difference? It’s huge.
So, the buyer’s CURRENT PERCEPTION is what you need to connect with. That’s why people keep buying crappy get-rich-quick products. They promise to deliver what the buyer PERCEIVES is a solution for them. But you are different. YOU are going to sell them something that actually helps them, right? But first you need to realize that your headlines and sales messages should not attempt to communicate the ACTUAL VALUE of what you’re selling! Your sales process, in order to be effective, must actually engage the buyer’s current perceptions of value.
…as a marketer you need to realize that purchases (or opt-ins to your email list) are made at the point of intersection between perceived value and communicated value…
What do your buyers want?
They want a quick fix. You don’t even need to research this. Trust me; every market is the same in this regard. They want to make more money…NOW. They want six pack abs…NOW. They want to find their dream home…NOW. And they don’t want to have to come up with a down payment (of course). You get the idea.
In other words, they want something completely ridiculous, and it’s your job to engage that desire. Notice I didn’t say it’s your job to give them what they want. This is a very important distinction. It’s simply your job to ENGAGE their current perceptions of value. You’re not selling them a piece of junk, because you’re not a scam artist, but as a marketer you need to realize that purchases (or opt-ins to your email list) are made at the point of intersection between perceived value and communicated value. In other words, your message must intersect with what they’re looking for…which is a quick fix. Unless that occurs, the buyer is not engaged, and no sale…no opt-in takes place.
Conversely, if your message DOES engage their perceived value, they can hardly help themselves. Your offer becomes so much more compelling, because you’re speaking to them directly. You’re meeting them on their turf. You’re making the extra effort to communicate to them that you actually understand what they want.
Questions
- How does your marketing hold up to this criteria so far?
- Are you going to go back and figure out a way to increase your conversions by 400%?
- Does this “repackaging” concept not sit well with you; do you feel it’s dishonest?
- Can you think of an example where you really felt you had a great offer, but it failed to connect or get the result you had hoped for?
- Is there anything I can do to clarify or help you implement this concept in your business?
I honestly feel this one single concept can completely change the course of your business. I’ve seen it happen again and again. One tweak, and everything changes. I hope this article gives you some fuel for improving your marketing dramatically. As always, comment or email with your questions or concerns:-)








Chris,
Love your posts – very helpful to anyone looking to market. Trying to do the whole blog/online empire thing as well now.
Go for it Tiger! Thanks for the kind words sir :-)
Really great read thanks. I actually thought I was list building okay until I read this. I will definitely be changing my approach.
Wow, this is GREAT information. I am going to use this on my blog. Thank you so much for sharing!!!
Hi Christain,
Great post- thanks for sharing, will keep an eye on my optins in the future and will know what needs to be changed if they are not good!
Love it!! Great tips!! I recently sat down with someone I didn’t know very well – but who was definitely someone who would be a target reader – and talked through my marketing message and got some great advice. His perception of my message was SOOOOO very different than what I was actually trying to say. I have been failing to connect on a few important subjects. What a great exercise! Great advice Christian.
Thanks Julie. This is hard to keep at the front of our mind, but when you step back and deliberately adjust your message to connect, it makes a world of difference. Have you studied DISC personality profiling? It’s another tool that has helped me connect with customers and dramatically increase sales.
I think you are completely right about people wanting a quick fix. It would be great to have a genie, right?
Quite right Rebecca. Of course I have a genie, but that’s just between you and me ;)
Right on Sharon…thanks for the comment!
Hello Chris,
Great post on how to say the right things on your site to build your list, or make sales. I’ve got an opt-in box on my blog offering a weekly newsletter that I set up couples days ago, after reading your post I’m going have to go and check my wording.
Thanks again,
Gerard.
Awesome Gerard. Little tweaks make all the difference…let me know how it goes. If you’re using a service like Aweber, you can also set up split tests, which can be very valuable when optimizing your forms.
Thanks for this. The quick fix thing is right and the demand for it is getting worse. Oh, I just thought of way to offer that! Thanks for the inspiration :)
I have actually JUST looked at the DISC profile … Dave and I just did one. It is very interesting!!
I actually was using a different type of profile for blogging and actually write certain messages for certain profile types. I even mapped it out for the year… and it’s interesting because some people comment on certain posts but not others.
With the DISC should you be communicating with people in their natural state or people in their adaptive state??
Hi Julie! My personal approach when it comes to writing is to be aware of the different types and give content that caters to each. Obviously you can do that a number of different ways. Importantly, a single article or marketing piece can be made to target all 4 primary traits. DISC is hugely valuable when working with clients also. It’s a system that teaches you to be sensitive of who you’re talking with, what type of information speaks to them and what type of SOLUTIONS they’re looking for. Any answer can be packaged a number of different ways. We respond emotionally to packaging and delivery, not substance :-)
I wanted to read the comments, not make one. Why doesn’t your link to comments work without clicking the link to leave a comment?
I think email lists are dead myself. I never have time or patience to read anything in email any more. Way too much clutter, way too many lists and newsletters. I don’t even unsubscribe, just filter them all out to trash. I used to unsubscribe but ended up getting spammed so much I gave up on doing it the nice way.
I’m glad you brought this up Laura…it’s an important topic. I’m actually the same…I read almost no email newsletters and rarely subscribe to much anymore. Here’s the thing…my clients do. I’ve learned I can’t be the one who decides what marketing to use. I have to do what works. Email remains people’s favorite way to subscribe.
I also periodically use pop-up windows to generate email subscriptions…another tactic I personally find annoying. Still, I’ve had a grand total of two complaints about the pop-up, and every time I put it up, it’s the highest converting form on my blog. Go figure. I am not my target audience. It took me a long time to learn that one!
To be fair, I’ve read all the “email is dead”, “blogging is dead” articles, etc. They all have good points. Meanwhile I keep right on using blogs and email with great results :-)
thanks very much i was getting slightly annoyed that noone was signing up for my email list,
Christian,
This advice is deep. My niche is college students who have trouble writing essays. What they THINK they want is to wake up in the morning and find that their paper has been written, proofread, and printed out, ready to be submitted, all by some sort of magic. I wish I could promise that.
Now, what they REALLY WANT deep inside is to be able to produce excellent writing – “just like all other smart students.” But they don’t know how, really.
So, in order to help them, first I have to speak to that part of them that wants magic, and offer the next best thing.
Thanks, Christian. Keep it up, man.
Thanks Phil :) It’s a big responsibility being in marketing, because people want solutions, but they *need* someone to actually lead them. Finding the balance between those two is a lot of fun…but it’s a lot of work that most marketers aren’t willing to do.
This was an excellent post, Chris! Definitely “thoughtfully composed” :-) It’s really funny what you say about the pop-up box. I found them personally annoying as well, but I’ve finally been convinced that others aren’t as bothered and have since put one up on my two of my websites. Thanks Chris!
Thanks Shae :)